What are little boys made of?

"Frogs and snails, And puppy-dogs' tails..." My grandma use to tell me a nursery rhyme that stated that this is what little boys are made of. OK, so maybe. What are men made of? Ego, mostly. If you want to know what makes up a man, look at yourself ladies. Start with a woman, dull the emotions and add a LOT of ego and you have a man.


Men really are simple. Almost everything we do can be filtered down to the ego. Why do men seem like they are interested in you at times, and then blow you off, or not call you for days at a time? It's because, if they were being honest, they aren't that interested in you. It's the ego that keeps them from just telling you the truth and moving on. There is something about you that they like, and their ego won't let another man enjoy. I may not really want you, but it doesn't mean I want some other guy to get you either. It can also be ego driven in another way. Maybe they are getting something from you that makes their ego feel good? I wonder what that could be??? Ladies, stop giving a man what he wants, and you will find out really quickly if he is really interested in you or not. I'M TALKING ABOUT SEX! Yes, it really is a weapon. One that a man is powerless against, if you know how to use it rather then impaling yourself on it. Learn to weld it and the world is yours. I'll definitely get back to that later!

If there is a bright side, all of that ego also makes us very insecure deep down. Either that, or we are really insecure to begin with and we develop the ego to compensate. Which it is doesn't matter. What's important to note here is that we really are as sensitive as you in a lot of ways. Otherwise, why would we spend so much time getting bigger muscles, buying faster cars, or trying to get better looking girls then our friends? From a young age men are competing with each other. We are constantly measuring ourselves against others. Do this enough, and you are going to start to create doubt in yourself here and there. You are bound to lose no matter how hard you try. You can't be better then everyone, at everything, all of the time.

So, why is it important to know this? Well, for one, that (in those two paragraphs up there) is 99% of what you need to know. Seems to easy doesn't it? Well, that's cause it is once you get it.
Secondly, it means that you only have to do two things right to make us happy and content and make us want to be with you and only you. Comfort the insecurity and boast the ego at the same time, and we are DONE!! We will fall in love with you for the way we see you, because of the way you make us see ourselves.

You KNOW I'm gonna have a lot more to say about this. Like, maybe, HOW you are going to do this?!?! Don't worry, I won't leave you hanging.

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