What's a Woman's Worth?

As I sit and think about my writing, I tried to think about what the reoccurring primary principle is. What is the one thing that I am trying to say more then anything else? Then I realized what it was. Not only did I realize what it was, but at the same time I realized it's the one thing that most people are forgetting or ignoring.

The nearly priceless value of a woman.

Alicia Keys wrote a song about it. Two lines of the song say "She rolls the mile makes you smile all the while being true. Don't take for granted the passion that she has for you."

I truly believe that women have evolved beyond men in emotional perception, connection, understanding, and appreciation. Women feel much more then men. They understand the value and benefits of deep personal connections and emotions. Women understand how love enriches the human experience much more then men. Men can intellectualize it, rationalize it, and analyze it. Men don't have the natural ability to do it. It's harder. For many men, it takes the love, patience, and support of a woman to feel it. Women offer men a deeper understanding of friendship, sexual connection, emotional experience, and human partnership.

I can tell you from my personal experience. I am naturally a introverted person. I am self centered and self sufficient. For most of my life, I have chosen to need no one. As a young man, I didn't appreciate women. I was a gentleman in person, but I didn't respect them. I took advantage of their emotional weaknesses. I would lead them along to get what I wanted. I thought I was smarter then they were, or some kind of master manipulator. Then, I meet a wonderful woman and got married. I gave 100% of myself and she taught me a great deal about myself. I never imagined I could feel love so deep. Then, I was crushed by that woman. I felt a low down depth in direct contrast to the soaring height of emotion I had felt from my love for her. I felt things I never thought I could. Through trying to sort through how I felt about the things that happened I gained a deeper understanding of my emotional self. Now, I truly appreciate things more. I have better, closer, and more rewarding relationships with my family. I have become a better father and enjoy much more being a parent. I have a new girlfriend that I love and appreciate deeply. I much better understand and appreciate my feelings for her and the value of our relationship. I get what she offers and what it means for her to give her emotional self to me. I truly understand her worth.In understanding her worth, I wouldn't dream of treating her as being anything less then nearly priceless. I know that I will learn and grow more from her as well. Guess what? If not for these two women in my life, I won't appreciate life nearly as much. I won't be writing. I won't be happy. BELIEVE IT!

Ladies, listen up! I've written about raising your value. I haven't talk much about what you should base that value on. You are nearly priceless!! The only reason I say "nearly" is because the right man will pay the cost to EARN you. It won't be easy for him, but he will do what it takes. IF he is the right one, he will fight to win you. When he does, he will appreciate you all the more. Nothing worth having is easy to acquire. THAT IS THE POINT! No man fights hard to get something just to lose it. Do you think a man that saves his money to buy his dream car is going to beat it up and drive it into the ground? NO WAY. Neither will he work hard to earn you just to lose you to cheating, poor treatment, neglect, etc, etc, etc. That only happens when you are easy to acquire. Like a penny on the ground. No value. "Easy come, easy go." So...

KNOW YOUR WORTH, AND DON'T TAKE A CENT LESS!!!!!